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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 2:09 PM
Unless you atribute all that to sex, which fails to explain trans people. (As trans people are not just people with a sex that have a different social expression, they FEEL different) (edited)
2:10 PM
Unless you say being trans is a social thing which is somehow learnt in society, which i dont think correlates with evidence. (As it would imply there is a easy way to trigger/avoid someone being trans through nurture) (edited)
2:13 PM
I dont think children LEARN from society to FEEL like men or women and to identify with their body or not.
2:14 PM
They do learn to behave in certain ways, and that is the social aspect. How they feel though is gender.
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I see what you’re saying but from my understanding when it comes to hormones, they don’t really have any correlation on behaviors. At the end of the day gender is complicated and deeply personal. The human experience is weird and sometimes illogical
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Milk
I see what you’re saying but from my understanding when it comes to hormones, they don’t really have any correlation on behaviors. At the end of the day gender is complicated and deeply personal. The human experience is weird and sometimes illogical
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:29 PM
Well, they do, hormones do affect behavior (trigger behavior the brain is hard coded to do when detecting certain hormones)
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Mmm it’s more like hormones create sensations in the nervous system that may prompt reactions. It’s not a one to one pathway.
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Hormones do change how you act
3:36 PM
People who go on estrogen or testosterone do talk about how it changes how they feel
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Estrogen can make people more emotional and quicker to become excited and testosterone can make people feel less emotional and.... more horny
3:37 PM
There is a reason there is a stereotypical set of traits for male or female, the hormones make you more likely to be a certain way (edited)
3:38 PM
Hormones can make a person feel and act like an entirely different person
3:39 PM
Gender is not 100 percent a social construct
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Sorry I should have been more clear when I responded to Destin. I don’t disagree that hormones can affect behavior but hormones do not cause certain behaviors. Hormones communicate with the nervous system which can prompt sensations in the body leading to behavior. People retain a say in their behavior, though hormones may affect judgement and decision making
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Rusty
Estrogen can make people more emotional and quicker to become excited and testosterone can make people feel less emotional and.... more horny
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:40 PM
Also hormones work different on males and females if im not wrong
3:40 PM
The same hormone i mean
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of course you always have a choice, but your hormones is a huge factor in your feelings and thought proccesses which will lead you to a different choice than you may have without that same set of hormones
3:41 PM
Every person, no matter their sex, will have estrogen and testosterone its just that the sexes have different amounts
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:42 PM
Yes, i mean that a lower testosterone level will affect differently males and females
3:42 PM
For example
3:42 PM
Probably because the levels of hormones they are used to though
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At least i thought everyone had both but I googled it and i think im wrong on that, maybe you can only have it if you actually put it in you 🤷‍♂️
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No you were right the first time
3:43 PM
Everyone has estrogen and testosterone
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Oh nevermind ovaries make testosterone
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Rusty
At least i thought everyone had both but I googled it and i think im wrong on that, maybe you can only have it if you actually put it in you 🤷‍♂️
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:43 PM
I also believed everyone had the 2
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Plus other hormones like progesterone and so on that are “related” to sex characteristics
3:44 PM
Generally males and females have them in varying amounts but some cis women produce as much testosterone as cis men and vice versus
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I actually am choosing to not go on T because of the fear of the hormones changing me as a person. I only want phyical changes, not mental ones.
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That (and other reasons) is why it’s better to view sex as a bimodal distribution
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Milk
Generally males and females have them in varying amounts but some cis women produce as much testosterone as cis men and vice versus
but then they end up with issues like growing beards, which can cause dysphoria in cis women because their bodies are giving them male traits.
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Rusty
I actually am choosing to not go on T because of the fear of the hormones changing me as a person. I only want phyical changes, not mental ones.
That’s fair. I hoped I didn’t sound like I was invalidating the way it can affect one mentally and emotionally! That wasn’t my aim at all. I was just trying to clarify my language
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Rusty
but then they end up with issues like growing beards, which can cause dysphoria in cis women because their bodies are giving them male traits.
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:47 PM
Wow, i actually never thought about that...
3:47 PM
Wrong reply
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Rusty
I actually am choosing to not go on T because of the fear of the hormones changing me as a person. I only want phyical changes, not mental ones.
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:47 PM
I meant this
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Rusty
but then they end up with issues like growing beards, which can cause dysphoria in cis women because their bodies are giving them male traits.
Yes sometimes, not all the times. I’m afab and have PCOS so I naturally produce a fuck ton of testosterone I’m not supposed to cause there’s cysts on my ovaries that decide to make it. I have more body hair than most cis women but no beard. It’s different for everyone
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I have no need for T, I cut my hair short and that was enough to have strangers mistake me for a guy quite often, the only thing thats giving it away now is my voice which you can change with voice training enough to be passable. c:
3:50 PM
A bit ago a kid was having an arguement with his mom because he was convinced I was a guy which made me super happy
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:50 PM
Is there relation between hormonation and good mood in trans people ftm trans people?
3:50 PM
Or hormonation is just for physical apearance?
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well, if your body is changing to the way you want it your gonna have a better mood
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:51 PM
But i mean direct effect, because there might
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Men generally are less emotional than women
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:53 PM
Well, i mean, for example cis men can feel depressed or low mood and low libido for a lack of testosterone, i dont know how that works in trans men though
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I wouldn't know. Cis men often feel depressed because of reasons that are attached to hormones
3:54 PM
Like soical pressures and how boys are raised to be 'tough'
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:55 PM
I dont think thats the case with what im talking about, but i would need to re-look it up
3:55 PM
I think its purely hormonal
3:58 PM
Well aparently low testosteron in women can also cause that, of course, low testosteron in women is much lower than in men
3:58 PM
'Depression, anxiety, irritability, and other mood changes are common in men and women with low T. However, researchers aren’t sure what causes the correlation. Testosterone therapy can boost the mood of many people with low T, particularly older adults.'
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This is interesting, a lot of this i've never thought about before
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 3:59 PM
Although i cannot derive from that how this applies to hormone treatment in trans people.
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I actually do know that if you start testosterone therapy as ftm, and then you stop it or your levels become inconsistent, you can have mood problems
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 4:01 PM
I would like to know if hormone treatment can improve mood in trans people directly (not through social or aspect mesns)
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I don't know if there'd be a way to test that
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 4:03 PM
Well, there is always a way, its just complicated
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No but like You can't isolate the person from the physical changes that come with testosterone So you can't know if it was because of the hormone's effect on the brain, or because of the physical changes that their mood changed
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 4:05 PM
you can, its just morally horrible lol
4:06 PM
you can do statistical tricks to try and separate the effect of different factors
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Yeah...
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 4:10 PM
stuff like, comparing the mood increase between people that live temporaly without mirrors or people with different levels of socialization, if you prove some statistically significant difference and see how the effect is correlated with socialization you could answer what i was wondering, it would just be difficult
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Ah yeah
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
Of course i dont mean actual notable visual anatomicall differences, i mean that male brains are likely predisposed to have a male identity (this might be triggered by hormones though, i dont know)
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:11 PM
My response is that you cannot have a male identity without society telling you what male identity looks like Something along those lines (edited)
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
And that if you have a "male identity" and "female body" that will cause you dysphoria.
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:12 PM
Thats not 100% true
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Luminesce: In simple terms it's probably true for a given trans person, but getting technical, my tulpas don't experience dysphoria when switched because of how they think about the body (edited)
8:19 PM
Me and the body being male, them being female
8:20 PM
It's probably possible to think your body doesn't fit "you" without having actual negative feelings about it, though that's less common than... having negative feelings about it
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
They do learn to behave in certain ways, and that is the social aspect. How they feel though is gender.
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:21 PM
Of course its more common
8:22 PM
Its like any other body thing people feel dysphoria about (or insecure, i think the two are similar, since the Definition of dysphoria has to do with a Feeling of unease or dissatisfaction of something)
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Oops
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Reisen
It's probably possible to think your body doesn't fit "you" without having actual negative feelings about it, though that's less common than... having negative feelings about it
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:23 PM
Of course that is mroe common
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More*
8:24 PM
People generally dislike things that dont match up with... god im unable to think of wordd
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Their minds?
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Identity, sense of self
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berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:28 PM
Yeah
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berockly (TTG)
My response is that you cannot have a male identity without society telling you what male identity looks like Something along those lines (edited)
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:48 PM
its not a "looks like" is about how you feel about yourself and your body
8:48 PM
society doesnt tell you anything about that
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
its not a "looks like" is about how you feel about yourself and your body
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:48 PM
Thats true But it wouldnt be as strong without the schema about gender
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:49 PM
trans people know their body doesnt fit them without society telling them anything
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berockly (TTG)
Thats true But it wouldnt be as strong without the schema about gender
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:49 PM
strong is not a good word, it would be different
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berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:50 PM
im unsure how to explain what im trying to explain
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So i have no response
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:51 PM
it would have less stuff attached to it
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
it would have less stuff attached to it
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:51 PM
Well It wouldn't have a label
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:52 PM
but i defined "male/female identity" as strictly only the mind part abstracted from all social aspects
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
im isolating in "male identity" all the things that make you feel that way, not all the social stuff that is usually linked to males.
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:52 PM
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berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:53 PM
Also i couldnt say for sure because obviously i dont know much about how trans people work But i feel like trans people may not even exist without being taught what gender is
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:53 PM
trans people (almost always) know they are trans (know their body doesnt fit their identity) way before they have the ability to even understand what gender is (edited)
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berockly (TTG)
Also i couldnt say for sure because obviously i dont know much about how trans people work But i feel like trans people may not even exist without being taught what gender is
I think they would, since for many there's an incongruity with their body, not just the social aspect
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Kei Wendt
I think they would, since for many there's an incongruity with their body, not just the social aspect
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:54 PM
Arguably, it would be hard to form a complex identity without society Im probably wrong about that though But theres a lot of stuff that is taught
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berockly (TTG)
Arguably, it would be hard to form a complex identity without society Im probably wrong about that though But theres a lot of stuff that is taught
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:55 PM
Yes, but that doesnt mean that your identity is part of society
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or a "social construct"
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your identity is a thing your brain is designed to develop in normal conditions (which is inside some kind of society)
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berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:55 PM
Its a self construct But its entirely effected by your environment and some slight genetic disposition (this much is obvious)
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 4/4/2023 8:56 PM
gender identity is 99% of the time genetically predisposed and predictable using just your sex
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berockly (TTG)
Arguably, it would be hard to form a complex identity without society Im probably wrong about that though But theres a lot of stuff that is taught
Luminesce: From the little I know, I do think this is true (edited)
8:57 PM
Just based on some cases where children grew up outside of social contexts
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
gender identity is 99% of the time genetically predisposed and predictable using just your sex
berockly (TTG) 4/4/2023 8:57 PM
Tbh I dont believe people are born trans I do believe (like with all things) there is some correlation of genetic disposition
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Luminesce: Hard to study since that's very destructive to their psyches and makes it hard if not impossible to ever fit back into society again though (edited)
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